KSENIA TREFILOVA
TRAUMA THERAPIST &
ORGANIZATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY ADVISOR
YOUR JOURNEY TO YOURSELF
BEGINS HERE
MAKING SENSE OF YOUR STORY, YOUR WORK, YOUR LIFE
2 ways i can help: restoring energy, meaning, and focus
For You
You’ve tried to hold it together.
You’ve talked to friends, but it doesn’t really help.
You wake up tired, drag yourself through the day, and even the things you used to love feel… gone.
Somewhere along the way, you started believing your feelings are “too much” — so you stopped sharing them.
That’s when I step in — I’m not afraid of your emotions, and I won’t rush you to “pull yourself together.” I’ll stay with you while you find your way back to yourself.
Finally set down the weight of the past you’ve been carrying for years
Find your balance in the middle of change, crisis, or uncertainty
Create relationships where you can be fully yourself — without fear
Make peace with your body and stop fighting against it
Integrate psychedelic experiences safely and meaningfully
Adjust to a new country, culture, or language with compassion for yourself
For Your Work
When you’re back in your energy — your team feels it.
Decisions become clear.
Tasks stop pulling you under.
The meaning behind your work comes back into focus.
You’re no longer stuck putting out fires — you’re leading people toward a vision you truly believe in.
This is the space where we work together to:
Clarify who you are as a leader — and what matters most right now
Build strategies rooted in your values, not in knee-jerk reactions
Set up processes that run smoothly without you carrying them on your back
Lead with empathy and confidence, instead of fear
Read the group dynamics, spotting what’s happening “beneath the surface”
Implement AI and automation in ways that serve people, not replace or harm them
Why I do This Work?
I’m a trauma therapist and organizational psychology advisor because I’ve been
through big changes myself — moving between countries, finding my identity, and
healing from the past. I know what it means to rebuild a self and to reshape systems,
and I hold deep respect for both. I help people make sense of themselves, and teams and
products stay connected to real human needs. I do this work because I
believe both people and systems can grow and become more honest, kind, and
alive. Let’s work together to create a life that you love.
No matter how messy things may seem,
you don’t have to go through it alone.
Feedback
Julia - 26-05-2025
We’ve been making amazing progress, and I couldn’t be more thrilled with how things are moving forward! Can’t wait to see what’s life brings me!
Jazz - 07-05-2025
The way you put things all together is more help and ideas than I have gotten from anyone in the lest 4 years. Thank you.
Rob - 07-04-2025
I began weekly sessions with Ksenia after working with another therapist for three years. Honestly, I came in pretty pragmatic, thinking there wasn’t much left to uncover about myself. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Through our work together, I started to see blind spots I’d never noticed before. My relationships with my family began to shift and improve, and—somehow—even my income grew. I think I’ve simply become a more pleasant person to be around.
Ivanca - 23-03-2025
Pleasant working with you Ksenia. A few months later I am still digesting the hike you took me on. A lot to think about.
Dani - 05-01-2025
Definitely, with your therapy I finished assimilating things that I had been working on for a long time in therapy and despite everything, I continued to suffer from them without finishing closing them properly. I never thought that the fusion of both things would be so fast, since I have been with the therapist for 6 years and I have made a lot of progress, but weeks before your therapy I felt stuck, I even began to think that perhaps I have been looking inward for too many years and I needed a change.
Anonymous - 22-12-2024
I want to say a big thank you to Ksenia. She helped me calm down in a difficult situation, and even more – I was able to bring out important thoughts and move towards solving the problem
Luis - 14-10-2024
My change has started with therapy and microdosing protocol. Relations with the partner improved too!
Dimitri - 07-10-2024
I did a hiking session with Ksenia about four months ago with follow up, and at the time, it felt really overwhelming. I was lucky to get a few months off work to figure out my life. Now, looking back, I realize that working with her was the best choice I made. She helped me see my resources, skills, and strengths- and helped me grow my faith in myself. Now i am at the moment of my life where I am opening my own business. Took me a while to get here.
Danny - 29-07-2024
To my own surprise, during sessions, I was able to voice events from my past that were very traumatic and dark, which I had never been able to share with anyone before. This process has helped me feel more like myself and more courageous. Additionally, I’ve gained confidence in my relationships with others. Her supportive and understanding approach made it possible for me to open up in ways I never thought I could.v
Myriam - 29-07-2024
I worked with Ksenia for almost six months, and she was incredibly helpful in identifying my trauma and addictions. She guided me in understanding myself better and helped me distinguish what was truly mine from external influences. I’ve decided to take a break from our sessions to travel for a few months, but I can see myself coming back to her for support in the future. Highly recommend her for anyone seeking clarity and personal growth.
Oscar - 12-06-2024
I did the hiking with psychologist, I recommend it!
Aden - 27-04-2024
When I reached out to Ksenia I was going through some significant life changes and was struggling to find footing. In the intervening period I managed to find some direction through taking a bit of distance and with the help of some conversations with friends. I was feeling quite focussed and clear when I began my protocol with Ksenia. Then when the actual work it seemed to elevate me to an even higher level of clarity and focus.
I am an amateur athlete and monitor my heart rate and other health data via my smartwatch. This period with Ksenia saw my heart rate variability (which is used as a proxy for stress) improve drastically. I was happy to share this with Ksenia and she was very excited about it. This is a level of engagement that I had never experienced with a therapist before.
Ksenia was always available for me and it felt like this was not just a job for her. She made me feel heard with her compassion and patience. Her expertise helped me navigate through the complex emotions and difficult decisions that I was facing. I am very grateful to have had her support
Manal - 17-04-2024
Ksenia’s sessions helped me navigate the different layers of my identity and how they show up in my life. If you are ready to delve a bit deeper into yourself, she will for sure support you in finding clarity, understanding your inner roadmap and making peace with your mind.
Alexey - 29-02-2024
После нескольких сессий с Ксенией в моём состоянии появился лёгкий прогресс. Я начал делать упражнения, которым она меня научила, и вижу местами, появляется просвет. Более менее есть движение вперёд. Я буду на связи, если мне нужна будет дополнительная помощь.
Ответ Ксении:
Пусть всё получается! Новые навыки самоценности, самоуважения и самоуверенности увеличиваются с каждым днём!
Anonymous - 19-01-2024
Good day. I would like to share that after the session it was the first time I actually slept relaxed & well. I would say since a few months ago. I just slept as a healthy human being. And I did not take any meds. I feel good in my heart. I feel it all and I feel well. Not euphoric, just well. I wanted to share, and I feel grateful. Being is cool.
Roberto - 19-10-2023
I had been living my life on autopilot for years until I connected with Ksenia. With her guidance and expertise, I delved into the darkest corners of my mind and confronted the demons I had been hiding for most of my adult life. Thanks to Ksenia’s methods and her uplifting personality, I have rediscovered my path. For that, I will be forever grateful. Obrigado.
Алёна - 25-08-2023
Ксюша ,благодарю за помощь ты прекрасно чувствительна и специалист в любимом деле,твои советы прояснили и помогли мне.gracias
Ann - 05-08-2023
“Мне понравился специалист, было одно, что я до этого не слышала от других психологов, хотя думала что нового уже ничего не услышу. Это в какой то степени мне помогло. Благодарна Ксении Юрьевне за консультацию.”
Tarana Suri - 21-08-2023
“Ksenia is an emphatic sensitive and caring person who thinks deeply and feels strongly. Her passion for understanding the human psyche is unbound and trust you are in good hands.”
Valentina Fratu - 27-08-2023
“I went to the deepest holes of myself with Ksenia to discover my wholeness. Inner resources that we found with her in darkness of subconsciuosness will stay with me forever. She is open, very sensitive not only to psycological, emotional state of a person, but also reads and communictes through the wisdom of the body. Something wider is opening up in sessions with her. My gratitude”
Mack - 22-08-2023
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